tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1841841084671666214.post96083847220120327..comments2024-03-11T02:26:38.210-05:00Comments on Always Drunk: Freudian SlipChuck Baudelairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07856142744531037691noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1841841084671666214.post-3061999723895876412015-12-27T19:22:20.062-06:002015-12-27T19:22:20.062-06:00I can't believe that it is almost 2016 and blo...I can't believe that it is almost 2016 and blogspot still doesn't have a way to edit comments!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16323871207793126503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1841841084671666214.post-404585280631151402015-12-27T19:08:21.135-06:002015-12-27T19:08:21.135-06:00*keeping. Blogspot needs an edit option. *keeping. Blogspot needs an edit option. Bill the Butcherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08436195659154078021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1841841084671666214.post-70531420278506685212015-12-27T19:05:50.291-06:002015-12-27T19:05:50.291-06:00What you should be doing is keying relations in th...What you should be doing is keying relations in the formal level and only on the formal level. The "joke" in the restaurant would probably seem much funnier to you than to anyone on the outside - personally, I didn't find it funny at all - which means that the situation in the wreckage of the marriage is so fraught with tension that you're looking for a safety valve to blow off steam in laughter. If your AlmEx is actually going back on his promises, no wonder. And his slip shows that in his mind it's *he* who's being divorced, not you. Bill the Butcherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08436195659154078021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1841841084671666214.post-77904753259463484602015-12-27T16:19:48.698-06:002015-12-27T16:19:48.698-06:00The family that laughs together may not stay toget...The family that laughs together may not stay together but at least you can live amicably which is why it pains me to say that you're being played. But there's nothing you could do differently or better. <br />You're not the one under any obligation to change. He is. <br />I'm sorry he doesn't recognize that.Christopherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10320886074658710855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1841841084671666214.post-73113708529316592312015-12-27T16:12:08.927-06:002015-12-27T16:12:08.927-06:00It's good to get along for the sake of PD. Law...It's good to get along for the sake of PD. Lawyers could sort out issues like the escrow for you, but that also would cost you...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07257516928972859500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1841841084671666214.post-38563498124731304892015-12-27T16:12:02.784-06:002015-12-27T16:12:02.784-06:00It's good to get along for the sake of PD. Law...It's good to get along for the sake of PD. Lawyers could sort out issues like the escrow for you, but that also would cost you...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07257516928972859500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1841841084671666214.post-40019605704340388742015-12-27T11:00:29.044-06:002015-12-27T11:00:29.044-06:00I probably wouldn't be as chummy with him, bec...I probably wouldn't be as chummy with him, because it encourages him to keep right on doing what he's doing. Why shouldn't he, if it doesn't bother you? Do you let him know that it bothers you? Did you ask him where the other half of YOUR money is? Do you think PD wanted to go to brunch with him, or do you think that she would just as well have gone back with you? i.e. did *they* change plans, or did *he* change plans, knowing that you'd come along? And did you go dutch, did he pay for PD or did you? So many questions.... But I have never been divorced. So what do I know? You can only do the best you can do at any given moment. Just keep your eyes open. {{{{{CHUCK}}}}}Miss Othmarnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1841841084671666214.post-61644912724353488882015-12-26T20:59:56.496-06:002015-12-26T20:59:56.496-06:00As much as you want to keep everything civil, it d...As much as you want to keep everything civil, it doesn't sound like it is 100% reciprocal. Cut his losses (because you are damned awesome and he's being a shit) and focus on starting anew. Make it about you now, because he obviously is not caring one bit about your feelings in all of this. Move forward, move on, and keep chugging forward.<br /><br />Love ya, doll...Simoreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14436883436068119284noreply@blogger.com